I came across a good call to charity towards N.T. Wright via N.T. Writes. Wedgewords writes that it is impossible, "to have a conversation about Wright without having to gear up for war." That is precisely my experience. Every time I quote Wright, or mention his work, I cringe, expecting an onslaught criticizing Wright's dangerous theology.
Wedgewords goes on to write that the pervasive attitude and reaction to Wright is, "juvenile, sinful, and suicidal for the Reformed world. "
I suggest reading the whole post. He has two good quotes from Wright himself there worth reading.